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Summary:

"Send your teenager out into the dating world equipped with the knowledge, strength, and communication skills to walk away from relationships that are abusive--and to develop healthy ones. As our kids grow older and they start asserting their independence, we worry about their safety and well-being. And when it comes to dating and intimacy, it is hard to know how to protect them when a would-be gentle relationship turns violent, be it verbally or physically. The fact is that as many as one in four high school and college-aged youth are affected by an abusive relationship. Relationship violence can affect anyone, regardless of race or background. So, how do we protect our kids from becoming another statistic? And how do we give them the self-assurance to leave a dangerous situation? In this informative guide for parents, Patti Occhiuzzo Giggans and Barrie Levy, both experts in the field of relationship violence, draw on their professional experience to provide guidance for getting through the relationship challenges that kids, both gay and straight, face today. Here you'll discover how to give your teen the skills to encourage healthy relationships, why many teenagers hide their abusive relationship, how to recognize the warning signs of dating violence, including cyber abuse, and what to do if your teen is the abuser, or when girls are the perpetrators of abuse"-- [Provided by publisher]

Table of Contents:

• What is relationship violence?
• Dynamics of abusive relationships
• Recognizing the warning signs
• Speaking the unspeakable: talking to your teens about sexual violence
• What keeps them together?
• Skills for healthy relationships
• Parenting for healthy relationships
• Teaching teens to be safe
• Effects on the family
• Getting off the rollercoaster
• Strengthening your relationship with your teen
• Taking action to intervene
• Breaking up
• If the violence stops
• Getting help: counselling, schools and the legal system
• Using the legal system
• Cultural strengths and challenges
• For parents of abusive teens
• For parents of gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender teens
• Healing.

Author/Creator:

Giggans, Patricia Occhiuzzo , author

Contributors:

Levy, Barrie , author

Languages:

English

Language Notes:

Item content: English

Main Work:

When dating becomes dangerous: a parent's guide to preventing relationship abuse [by Giggans, P.O.]

Other Related Resources:

Based on: What parents need to know about dating violence [by Levy, B.] (Seattle, Wash. : Seal Press, ©1995 — LCCN 94042614)

Online version: When dating becomes dangerous [by Giggans, P.O.] (Center City, Minnesota : Hazelden, [2013] — ISBN 9781616495022; LCCN 2013032001)

Subjects:

Dating violence

Dating violence — Prevention

Parenting

General Notes:

Based on the authors' book, What parents need to know about dating violence.
Includes bibliographical references (pages 241-243).

Physical Description:

xx, 245 pages ; 23 cm

Call Numbers:

HQ801.83 .G54 2013

ISBNs:

9781616494711 (pbk.)
1616494719 (pbk.)
9781616495022 (e-book) [Invalid]

Library of Congress Control Numbers:

2013031095

OCLC Numbers:

826444602